Will someone please tell me why there is so much baby drama these days. I understand that not everyone stays together, but ladies when it's over it's over. We all know some of us hold a drudge against the guys when they find someone new and leave us with the kid or kids. It is true guys can be dirty at times, but we need to move on and find love elsewhere. It is wrong to use our kids as leverage against the man or men who loves their children.